However, I know that fear is a very important aspect of all our personalities. It’s important for us to know what we’re running from, what we’re trying to avoid when we react rather than respond to our lives.
So here it is. I’ll make this short.
Our basic fears:
Ones: Of being corrupt, evil or defective
Twos: Of being unwanted or unworthy of being loved
Threes: Of being worthless
Fours: Of having no identity or personal significance
(See how fun this is?)
Fives: Of being useless, incapable or helpless
Sixes: Of being without support or guidance
Sevens: Of being in pain or deprived (or of having to write a blog post about fears)
Eights: Of being harmed or controlled by others
Nines: Of loss or separation
Now, let’s all take a moment to send kind thoughts out to each and every one of us on the planet. We all suffer from some pretty awful fears. Luckily, they are just fears. They aren’t our realities, they are just what we fear might happen if we don’t work our ever-lovin’ asses off to avoid them.
The truth is, we don’t have to work as hard as we think we do, because:
Ones aren’t bad people.
Twos were born loveable, just like
Threes were born valuable.
Fours are inherently significant just as they are.
Fives have everything they need to experience life as it comes.
Sixes also have everything they need and are just as supported as everyone else in the world.
Sevens can tolerate pain and it always passes.
Eights can find great strength in vulnerability, and
Nines haven’t lost anything because harmony always returns.
We can all, with lots of practice, learn to separate from our fears so we can experience true integrity, love, value, meaning, wisdom, security, fulfillment, strength and peace.